tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post7371000520911030697..comments2023-09-18T21:28:14.719+08:00Comments on Kata Tak Nak: I Hate Bad NewsAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084016249299016323noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-12910889316652252152008-04-25T08:36:00.000+08:002008-04-25T08:36:00.000+08:00Feel so sad and touched by these reality of life. ...Feel so sad and touched by these reality of life. But not much different when we feel sorry without action. Please also do e-mail me the account number if the family sudi. Maybe the small amount that i barely can afford won't make any different to them, but at least we do our part. My e-mail: pantaier at gmail dot com.Abdullah Pantaierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10383706224879385811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-49916478258188921762008-04-24T21:05:00.000+08:002008-04-24T21:05:00.000+08:00Hello Chegu..Hmm this is very sad..and they can't ...Hello Chegu..<BR/><BR/>Hmm this is very sad..and they can't afford to go to a specialist...Is it possible to get some details about this family..possibly maybe I could speak to a few people that could help out this family..If you don't mind could you email me the details to my email Farah_abd@hotmail.comLife is like that!!!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/17924323379522978341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-16622220348262191972008-04-23T21:25:00.000+08:002008-04-23T21:25:00.000+08:00MS,I'll have to ask them first. Kita tak tau sama ...MS,<BR/>I'll have to ask them first. Kita tak tau sama ada dia mau atau tak. Actually they should accept any help that is forthcoming. Anyway I tak ada Maybank account. Thanx.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06084016249299016323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-2300516352781148452008-04-23T21:23:00.000+08:002008-04-23T21:23:00.000+08:00suealeen,Yes, life can be very testing. I pun tak ...suealeen,<BR/>Yes, life can be very testing. I pun tak tau apa nak buat.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06084016249299016323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-70847639723763028422008-04-23T21:22:00.000+08:002008-04-23T21:22:00.000+08:00Dapne,I'll tell them about what you said. I'll let...Dapne,<BR/>I'll tell them about what you said. I'll let you know if there is any way you could help. ThanxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06084016249299016323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-8627715364692233282008-04-23T21:21:00.000+08:002008-04-23T21:21:00.000+08:00Doc,I don't know if the JKM would be any help. By ...Doc,<BR/>I don't know if the JKM would be any help. By the time you eventually get help, the baby would have been dead.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06084016249299016323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-42833458047073876132008-04-23T21:20:00.000+08:002008-04-23T21:20:00.000+08:00Monty,Yes, we have to accept reality but sometimes...Monty,<BR/>Yes, we have to accept reality but sometimes reality is just too hard.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06084016249299016323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-45922507523097521612008-04-23T21:19:00.000+08:002008-04-23T21:19:00.000+08:00Zabs,That's the worst part, we could only look and...Zabs,<BR/>That's the worst part, we could only look and see and not be able to do anything. Just imagine how the parents would feel.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06084016249299016323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-66329717400684816432008-04-23T16:54:00.000+08:002008-04-23T16:54:00.000+08:00Chegu..So sedih. Like Tokasid said, fall from stai...Chegu..<BR/><BR/>So sedih. Like Tokasid said, fall from stairs, staircase fall on you, and the snake bite your eyes .. I know.. in translation it doesn't quite gel.<BR/><BR/>Joke aside, the only thing to do is provide as much love and joy to this boy. No matter how brief his life is, with love, even if its for a very short time ... will be worth it. I think the parents and siblings are up for it. <BR/><BR/>Encouragement and a little fulus is just what the family needs...<BR/><BR/>OK, I'll put my money where my mouth is. Depa ada MBB account kah chegu? Kalau takda chegu ada?... lani nak tolong sket... Email me chegu ASAP.Mat Salohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13660319094415586065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-12709379077987037782008-04-23T15:05:00.000+08:002008-04-23T15:05:00.000+08:00this is the same case like one of my friends. anak...this is the same case like one of my friends. anak down syndrome, pastu ada hole in heart. saya panggil kawan saya ni dengan nama Wak. anak dia 8 orang, tinggal di padang jawa. rumah sewa dia tu ada 1 bilik tido je. kerja dia pun tak menentu jugak...<BR/><BR/>anak dia masih hidup sehingga kini. umo lebih kurang 4-5 tahun kot. part paling best - adik-beradik dia tak sisihkan dia pun. hopefully Allah gives her long life, insyaAllahSue.Aleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14237818992306316920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-51840539910917240362008-04-23T14:33:00.000+08:002008-04-23T14:33:00.000+08:00Hi Chegu,Actually, I have never met the family mys...Hi Chegu,<BR/><BR/>Actually, I have never met the family myself...The last time I went with my parents, they were out ma...Which is why we passed the gift through you...<BR/><BR/>Anyway, this IS sad news...But I wanted you to know that I have worked with a Downs child who is now 18 years old, who has a very severe heart condition...<BR/><BR/>She gets blue just by walking (long time)...<BR/><BR/>BUT...She is doing well, in the sense that she goes to school, and she even goes horse-riding! Seriously...<BR/><BR/>The doctors told her mum she won't live for long either, but she's doing well, under her circumstances...<BR/><BR/>What Im trying to say is that there is <I>hope</I>...Im not trying to downplay the situation, k?<BR/><BR/>I know it sucks big time, but I guess the most we can do is to give the family the support they need, whteher it be financially or emotionally, or just being there...<BR/><BR/>Let me know if I can be of help...Daphne Linghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15203105761769093793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-74284177085697832652008-04-23T12:55:00.000+08:002008-04-23T12:55:00.000+08:00Salam Che'gu:That is the test that many average in...Salam Che'gu:<BR/><BR/>That is the test that many average incomed ppl have to go through these days.<BR/><BR/>Its like sudah jatuh ditimpa tangga mata pulak di patuk ayam.<BR/><BR/>I think this is where the Jabatan Kebajikan Masyarakat should play their role, to help families like these. And in helping with less red-tape and procedure like robots but with more humane and compassion. And hopefully families like these doesn't need the recommendation from Ketua Kampung or JKKK before Welfare Dept entertains their applications.tokasidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06767973481117699680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-13491444043324341842008-04-23T12:54:00.000+08:002008-04-23T12:54:00.000+08:00kata tak nak...So sad to hear that bad news...but ...kata tak nak...So sad to hear that bad news...but there are worst bad news than your friends...and hope they will be enlightened with the truths of life. <BR/>I have a friend...with two daughters....now more than 20 years old. From day one ..born...both children have water in their heads....and need to pumped out monthy. They are not ordinarychildren. Cannot be married.<BR/>The father is a successful worker with a degree..and he needs to spend half of his salaries...all his life...to take care of those two daughters.<BR/>Now the father is more than 60 years old...still working...but medical bills are much lesser...supported by good government hospital....providing free or low fee for consultations...operations and medicine.....but he still needs to buy health food and other medicines he feel good for his daughters...and that cost him a pile....every month too. He is a Pharmacist...thus he knows about medicine...as good as a doctor.<BR/>An just last week.....a retired teacher friend of mine.age 70....just enjoying few years of great life...with two daughters married off...to two brothers..good husbands...and all love him so much....producing 3 grand children.<BR/>He lived in Malacca.....love fishing...riding a motor cycle. I gave him a car worth RM17K...telling him to stop riding a bike at his age.<BR/>He sold his house and car.also fr RM17K.after few years.still same value......and moved to stay with daughters in K.Lumpur.<BR/>Last week..he met with an accident...riding his bike..and died. He was my childhood best friend. <BR/>He struggled all his life..to give his two daughters ....best education..and both have degrees....wife and children.......love him..so much.<BR/>He was at prime of his life..to relax and enjoy a blissful contented life....without worries nmore...but he is so used to riding a motor bike...and that took his life away. Had he listened to my advise...kept the car I gave him...he should be alive today.<BR/>I have few good friends...all died young too.<BR/>I hope your couple friends read this...and learn to let go.<BR/>Trully...children are born from the wombs of mothers....but the souls are not from them.<BR/>It's the right condition of sex....that attract the soul in..to give personalities....character.....usually different from parents.<BR/>In shot...we are simple...temporary "parents"...to be responsible...and let them fly away....to their own destinies.<BR/>So if dead...there must be reasons and purposes..not easy to understand...but need to be accepted...as their time is up...on Earth.monsterballhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11390940464153794347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3240783397527062077.post-69639846788360545702008-04-23T12:52:00.000+08:002008-04-23T12:52:00.000+08:00Salam Chegu,Kita hanya boleh simpati dengan keluar...Salam Chegu,<BR/>Kita hanya boleh simpati dengan keluarga ini. Mungkin Ramai akan berkata, ada hikmah di sebalik apa yang dijadikan Allah itu. Tetapi bagaimana berat sekali mata memandang, tentu berat lagi tangungan keluarga ini.<BR/>Semoga mereka dapat menghadapi dugaan ini dengan tabah. InsyaAllah.ZABShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16979454752633096337noreply@blogger.com